Well I’ve started carrying my running shoes when I go biking so I can run home after my bike breaks. It adds a little weight but saves a lot of time.
Every time I have to decide to help amber I usually think no. I am enabling this person who won’t relax and not ditch their car keys somewhere where they can never be found and then lose the second set as well. And what message am I sending to other people who care about me and do take care of themselves? And she’s probably a witch anyway, I’m just caught in some satanic trap. But then I realize I spend more time worrying about it and deciding than if I just went and got her again. Or visited her in the hospital. She’s just a person. Massively struggling. And I can help right now.